Starting something new can feel daunting, especially when it comes to charting a new course for your beliefs, values, or personal growth. In Fully Human/Fully Alive, Lyle Simpson doesn’t just theorize about humanism—he offers hands-on advice and encouragement for anyone ready to begin a new kind of quest for meaning.
For many, the journey begins with a single question or a moment of dissatisfaction. Maybe long-held beliefs don’t resonate anymore, or established routines feel empty. Simpson assures you: this restlessness is not a sign you’re lost, but a sign you’re waking up. The first, simple act is acknowledging that a meaningful life is something you get to build, not just stumble into.
So, where to start? Simpson suggests exploring communities that encourage growth—organizations like the American Humanist Association, local discussion groups, or even online forums. The goal is not to “convert” to a single worldview, but to expose yourself to new ideas, experiences, and conversations that stretch your mind and heart.
Next, Simpson urges you to “prime the pump.” Create your own alternatives to inherited traditions. This might take the shape of journaling, setting personal goals, building new rituals of gratitude or reflection, or even launching creative projects. In seeking goals that truly excite and challenge you, you infuse daily life with energy and forward motion.
Education is another pillar of the humanist journey. Seek out literature, talks, podcasts, and workshops that broaden your perspective. Each book read or conversation had is a stepping stone toward a richer self-understanding.
Above all, be gentle with yourself. The search for meaning isn’t a straight line—it involves missteps, doubt, and reevaluation. Simpson repeatedly reassures that this process is not just valuable, it’s essential. Every stumble is a lesson; each question asked is evidence that you’re alive and engaged.
As you set out, remember: you aren’t alone. Millions of others are asking the same questions all over the world. Join them, support them, and let yourself be supported. Your journey will not only enrich your own life but will inevitably ripple outward, inspiring others who see you living with authenticity and hope.
The most meaningful lives are not those in which all is certain, but those in which people dare to keep searching, keep asking, and keep creating anew. Begin today—and let curiosity, community, and purpose guide the way.