You want to live at your best, reach your potential, and do what truly matters. But why does it so often seem impossible? In “Fully Human/Fully Alive,” Lyle Simpson delves into the insidious forces he calls “scatomas”—the blind spots that make actualizing your existence such a monumental challenge.
Scatomas aren’t just ignorance; they’re psychological blind spots so powerful that they block out information incompatible with current beliefs. Originating from fear, upbringing, or trauma, these blind spots make us cling to assumptions and defend them fiercely—even when proof to the contrary piles up. Simpson argues that in today’s world—with its violence, tribalism, and constant stress—these mental barriers are more prevalent than ever.
Recognizing you have a blind spot is tough because, well, you can’t see it. But clues appear in moments of resistance: when you get defensive, refuse feedback, or shut down new ideas. Simpson suggests reflective practices and honest dialogue with trusted others as antidotes. It takes humility and courage to let trusted people point out what you can’t (or won’t) see.
Our brains are wired to conserve energy and maintain comfort, but this “security system” can sabotage growth. Simpson notes that it’s not just individuals—whole societies get stuck defending their collective blind spots, polarizing groups and impeding progress.
What’s the way forward? Begin with radical self-honesty. Seek out situations and people who challenge you—not tormentors, but gentle expanders of your world. Journal about areas where you feel stuck. Notice knee-jerk reactions and pause before defending your position.
Progress is incremental, not instant. Every time you see (and address) a new blind spot, you open a gateway to greater vitality, creativity, and joy. Actualizing your potential is tough because it means constantly outgrowing your own limitations—a process as exhilarating as it is uncomfortable.
Author Simpson reminds us: The struggle isn’t evidence of failure but of growth. To be fully human and fully alive is to continue seeing, accepting, and stretching beyond what you once thought possible.
